Sometimes you have a person that enters your life and instantly you know that there is something so amazing about them. They make you smile with a good morning text or a dream better text at night. This amazing individual you can talk to about anything for hours. They are smart and show through conversations. They are funny and can get you to laugh. They listen as they know how important that is. There kiss is sweet and leaves you wanting more.
My point is if you find someone that makes you constantly think of them---make sure to take the opportunity as you never know if you shall get another chance.
"To be your friend was all I ever wanted; to be your lover was all I ever dreamed."
Friday, June 18, 2010
Sunday, May 16, 2010
See you on the flipside...
I want to forewarn that I might not be blogging for awhile. I have some changes in life.
I don't know how long this will be and I am not sure when I will be back to blog. Who knows I may sneak on now and again.
See you on the flipside...
I don't know how long this will be and I am not sure when I will be back to blog. Who knows I may sneak on now and again.
See you on the flipside...
Keep smiling, Keep going
I came to a harsh realization that people are not what they portray themselves---even the good ones---me included.
It amazes me sometimes when you think you know someone so well and than---WHAM---you are blindsided with the unexpected.
It saddens me to know how very little you mean to someone that you considered to be big part of your life. I guess this is what life is about. The unexpected.
Communication is such a big part of human relationships of all kinds. Known fact. However, communication cannot be one-sided. If one is unwilling or lacks the ability than the essence/magic is lost.
I feel as if I am losing the dreamer in me.
No worries, I am okay, as I am me. I like me. I am happy with me.
I forgive easily, so there is no hard feelings.
One thing I've learned---keep smiling, keep going.
It amazes me sometimes when you think you know someone so well and than---WHAM---you are blindsided with the unexpected.
It saddens me to know how very little you mean to someone that you considered to be big part of your life. I guess this is what life is about. The unexpected.
Communication is such a big part of human relationships of all kinds. Known fact. However, communication cannot be one-sided. If one is unwilling or lacks the ability than the essence/magic is lost.
I feel as if I am losing the dreamer in me.
No worries, I am okay, as I am me. I like me. I am happy with me.
I forgive easily, so there is no hard feelings.
One thing I've learned---keep smiling, keep going.
Ireland
Just priced a trip to Ireland!
Next step, to try and get vacation approved from boss lady.
Keep your fingers crossed for me!
Next step, to try and get vacation approved from boss lady.
Keep your fingers crossed for me!
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Love is fickle...
A very smart 12 year old asked me the difference of love and unconditional love.
To break it down in simple forms I explained that unconditional love is the love that I have for my kids. I love them with no strings attached. They don't have to do anything to earn my love as it will always be there.
Love is something that a person feels towards someone after getting to know them and liking either the conversation, time spent, or a variety of other things. This type of love there was a cause and effect; for example, they needed to have those conversations to fall in love, if the conversations go away, chances are the love with fade.
Later on I began to think in more in depth of what unconditional love and love is.
A lot of people put conditions on love. They love only when it meets in there criteria/conditions and don't love when the conditions/criteria are not met. They can turn from love to hate instantly as something falls out of those conditions/criteria. Not to mention someones conditions/criteria may change so if the one receiving the love does not change along with these criteria/conditions they are deemed unworthy of continuing to receive their love.
The one thing I believe is love is fickle.
To break it down in simple forms I explained that unconditional love is the love that I have for my kids. I love them with no strings attached. They don't have to do anything to earn my love as it will always be there.
Love is something that a person feels towards someone after getting to know them and liking either the conversation, time spent, or a variety of other things. This type of love there was a cause and effect; for example, they needed to have those conversations to fall in love, if the conversations go away, chances are the love with fade.
Later on I began to think in more in depth of what unconditional love and love is.
A lot of people put conditions on love. They love only when it meets in there criteria/conditions and don't love when the conditions/criteria are not met. They can turn from love to hate instantly as something falls out of those conditions/criteria. Not to mention someones conditions/criteria may change so if the one receiving the love does not change along with these criteria/conditions they are deemed unworthy of continuing to receive their love.
The one thing I believe is love is fickle.
My personality...
You are interested in the big picture. You like to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas. You carefully weigh all of the variables involved, connect disparate facts in novel ways and regularly come up with imaginative solutions to complex problems. You see holistically and can be visionary.
You are friendly and humane. You have a big heart; you tend to trust people and sympathize with them easily. You intuitively know what they are thinking and feeling. And because you are agreeable and mentally flexible, you go out of your way to make others comfortable and happy. You seek to make intimate, meaningful friendships.
Your empathy and altruism spill over into a desire to make the world a better place. And with your resilience and imagination, your ability to do many things at the same time, your people skills and your command of language, you can be remarkably effective at improving the lives of others.
You are also traditional. You have clear moral values and tend to stick to your point of view. Yet you almost always seek consensus and harmony, and are willing to give up some of your pleasures to build an orderly, harmonious home and family life.
Relating to others:
You tend to be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people. And you work to keep your networks intact. You also look in as well as out; you are introspective. And you like probing the meanings of life. So you avoid casual chit-chat. You can be so agreeable that some people may overlook your complex personality.
In relationship:
You are a die-hard romantic, and you must have depth and meaning in your relationships. You like heart-to-heart exchanges that explore personal philosophies, goals, ethical dilemmas, and the meanings behind art, music, poetry or some other abstract topic. You are emotionally expressive and want your partner to share his or her genuine self with you. You also admire people who make plans and schedules. And you are attracted to a mate with a fixed moral compass. Moreover, for you, love must be embedded in a stable long-term relationship beginning with a march down the aisle. Most important, to balance your imaginative and supple spirit, you gravitate to people who know their own mind, make decisions quickly, focus on one thing at a time and can provide a stable home. And you can be very sensitive to your mate, communicating your emotions clearly and tenderly.
You are friendly and humane. You have a big heart; you tend to trust people and sympathize with them easily. You intuitively know what they are thinking and feeling. And because you are agreeable and mentally flexible, you go out of your way to make others comfortable and happy. You seek to make intimate, meaningful friendships.
Your empathy and altruism spill over into a desire to make the world a better place. And with your resilience and imagination, your ability to do many things at the same time, your people skills and your command of language, you can be remarkably effective at improving the lives of others.
You are also traditional. You have clear moral values and tend to stick to your point of view. Yet you almost always seek consensus and harmony, and are willing to give up some of your pleasures to build an orderly, harmonious home and family life.
Relating to others:
You tend to be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people. And you work to keep your networks intact. You also look in as well as out; you are introspective. And you like probing the meanings of life. So you avoid casual chit-chat. You can be so agreeable that some people may overlook your complex personality.
In relationship:
You are a die-hard romantic, and you must have depth and meaning in your relationships. You like heart-to-heart exchanges that explore personal philosophies, goals, ethical dilemmas, and the meanings behind art, music, poetry or some other abstract topic. You are emotionally expressive and want your partner to share his or her genuine self with you. You also admire people who make plans and schedules. And you are attracted to a mate with a fixed moral compass. Moreover, for you, love must be embedded in a stable long-term relationship beginning with a march down the aisle. Most important, to balance your imaginative and supple spirit, you gravitate to people who know their own mind, make decisions quickly, focus on one thing at a time and can provide a stable home. And you can be very sensitive to your mate, communicating your emotions clearly and tenderly.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
The daily stuff...
I was daydreaming...
I would love to have someone to talk to on the sleepless night. Someone in which I can talk about the day, the dreams, the wants, the needs, and everything in between.
I'll share one here:
Been looking at pictures of Niagara Falls and it truly amazes me. I can close my eyes and here the sound of the water. Hopefully this summer I will be making my way out there. Got my fingers crossed.
Advice from a man...
As I was talking to a male friend tonight as I do from time to time for some "man" advice. I was told this:
What a good reminder, I said. Point me to this guy, I said.
When a guy yells at you, Heather, remember there is a guy who would love to whisper softly to you.
When a guy makes you cry, Heather, there will be a guy who would love to steal your smiles.
Heather, When a guy humiliates you or insults you, there will be a guy who will love to remind you how wonderful you are.
Most of all Heather, when a guy hurts you, remember there is a guy wishing you to be his, wishing to make love to you, to be there for you.
What a good reminder, I said. Point me to this guy, I said.
My nightmare repeating itself...
Today I was at work in my own world---working away--I didn't talk and I didn't listen--just worked.
I was told today "Heather, I can not work this way. With you not talking. I can not take it." I didn't feel like talking, sharing, or even listening. I just wanted the day to pass as it was "my friday".
Midway through the day my phone goes off. It seems as my first ex-husband located me via Facebook--lucky me. This man has not been a part of my daughters life since shortly after our divorce. Tiana was 1.
His message was short "Let me know how my daughter is."
This brings shivers down my spine.
What do I say to him "She calls another man dad. How are you?"
Don't get me wrong, Tiana knows that who she calls Dad is not her blood Dad, but he is her real Dad. Tiana does not want anything to do with her blood father. We have talked and she has a good head on her shoulders. I don't blame her.
I am thinking that it is time to involve a lawyer to get rights terminated. It shouldn't be that big of a deal; he pays no child support, he hasn't participated in her life since she was 1, and he has done wrong in his life. I am not saying that people can not change---but when it comes to my kids---you better be proving it way before you get the benefit of the doubt.
Tonight is one of those nights where I want my kids close.
I was told today "Heather, I can not work this way. With you not talking. I can not take it." I didn't feel like talking, sharing, or even listening. I just wanted the day to pass as it was "my friday".
Midway through the day my phone goes off. It seems as my first ex-husband located me via Facebook--lucky me. This man has not been a part of my daughters life since shortly after our divorce. Tiana was 1.
His message was short "Let me know how my daughter is."
This brings shivers down my spine.
What do I say to him "She calls another man dad. How are you?"
Don't get me wrong, Tiana knows that who she calls Dad is not her blood Dad, but he is her real Dad. Tiana does not want anything to do with her blood father. We have talked and she has a good head on her shoulders. I don't blame her.
I am thinking that it is time to involve a lawyer to get rights terminated. It shouldn't be that big of a deal; he pays no child support, he hasn't participated in her life since she was 1, and he has done wrong in his life. I am not saying that people can not change---but when it comes to my kids---you better be proving it way before you get the benefit of the doubt.
Tonight is one of those nights where I want my kids close.
The idea...
As I was working today I started to think about does a person want to be with someone or with their idea of that someone?
This is an easy question for me. I will always choose the real person. This includes the good, the bad and the ugly---the whole sha-bang. Many people have a picture or an idea of a person and that can most often lead them to disappointment. I'll always pick truth over fantasy--any and everyday.
I have met way too many people that act on the idea of a person and not the actual person. How sad in my point of view.
I came to realize that some people are just extremely shallow..
This is an easy question for me. I will always choose the real person. This includes the good, the bad and the ugly---the whole sha-bang. Many people have a picture or an idea of a person and that can most often lead them to disappointment. I'll always pick truth over fantasy--any and everyday.
I have met way too many people that act on the idea of a person and not the actual person. How sad in my point of view.
I came to realize that some people are just extremely shallow..
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Conclusion
I was told by a very wise person that:
I think you are right.
"A conclusion is simply the place where you got tired of thinking."
I think you are right.
A Monday Surprise....
I had a pretty rough Mother's Day. I hate to admit this but I spent the majority of the day in tears. I missed my mom and I just felt alone.
Don't get me wrong, my kids were absolutely amazing to me and they made the day fantastic!
I took a long hot bath and a friend called to listen to me cry---bet they wish they wouldn't have afterwards.
Anyway, monday at work this is what I received:
Thank you, it made my day, it was not needed, but a very nice surprise. The people that are in my life are the best---great friends.
A sweet card attached stating "Today will be better--you deserve it!"
Don't get me wrong, my kids were absolutely amazing to me and they made the day fantastic!
I took a long hot bath and a friend called to listen to me cry---bet they wish they wouldn't have afterwards.
Anyway, monday at work this is what I received:
Thank you, it made my day, it was not needed, but a very nice surprise. The people that are in my life are the best---great friends.
A sweet card attached stating "Today will be better--you deserve it!"
Dinner and, um, entertainment....
Yesterday at work I asked a co-worker if they would like to get supper. We always go and eat at the local Mexican restaurant---they have the best queso dip.
Anyway, after they said yes, I text a couple of other friends to see if they wanted to meet us for supper and of course they said agreed too. I went home and was teasing my kids on how I am going out to eat and they are staying home. The pouted, gave me puppy dog eyes, and well they gave me the works---all the dirty guilty tricks they could think of.
I had no intentions of not bringing me kids---I just like to give them a hard time now and again.
So, at the restaurant, I order my normal vegetarian number 4 and a margarita. We all sat around and talked and laughed. It was a great night.
Nothing out of the ordinary---yet!
As we were paying and getting ready to leave a fight breaks out. One man had broke a beer bottle over another ones head and the fists were flying. Blood was scattered all over the area. I asked one of the friends to take my kids outside while I paid.
Of course the man that ran the cash registered was trying to break up the fight---I had front seats to an absolute ridiculous show.
The fight broke out over a female. How silly. The young female started saying to the one man "What are you looking at?" and well her "over jealous" boyfriend broke the beer bottle over the head of the older guy that was enjoying his meal with his wife. This is where it got a bit out of control, as he was knocked down the young woman was standing on his neck while her boyfriend was punching away.
The fight eventually got broken up---but restarted at least 6 times. Why they didn't separate them into different rooms when they were actually separated--I have no idea.
The police show up but the one man who started the fight was taken somewhere by the waiter who mysteriously could not have been found.
I finally state to one of the waiters now that everything is calm can I please pay so I can leave.
Much more than what I bargained for. I dislike fighting---it makes me extremely nervous.
Anyway, after they said yes, I text a couple of other friends to see if they wanted to meet us for supper and of course they said agreed too. I went home and was teasing my kids on how I am going out to eat and they are staying home. The pouted, gave me puppy dog eyes, and well they gave me the works---all the dirty guilty tricks they could think of.
I had no intentions of not bringing me kids---I just like to give them a hard time now and again.
So, at the restaurant, I order my normal vegetarian number 4 and a margarita. We all sat around and talked and laughed. It was a great night.
Nothing out of the ordinary---yet!
As we were paying and getting ready to leave a fight breaks out. One man had broke a beer bottle over another ones head and the fists were flying. Blood was scattered all over the area. I asked one of the friends to take my kids outside while I paid.
Of course the man that ran the cash registered was trying to break up the fight---I had front seats to an absolute ridiculous show.
The fight broke out over a female. How silly. The young female started saying to the one man "What are you looking at?" and well her "over jealous" boyfriend broke the beer bottle over the head of the older guy that was enjoying his meal with his wife. This is where it got a bit out of control, as he was knocked down the young woman was standing on his neck while her boyfriend was punching away.
The fight eventually got broken up---but restarted at least 6 times. Why they didn't separate them into different rooms when they were actually separated--I have no idea.
The police show up but the one man who started the fight was taken somewhere by the waiter who mysteriously could not have been found.
I finally state to one of the waiters now that everything is calm can I please pay so I can leave.
Much more than what I bargained for. I dislike fighting---it makes me extremely nervous.
My horoscope for today...
My horoscope for today:
Yup, that sounds EXACTLY like me! Every once in awhile they hit the nail on the head.
You're pretty happy with what you've got -- except that you want more! It's a weird time to be close to you, as you might be needier than usual, but not quite able to tell people what you need.
Yup, that sounds EXACTLY like me! Every once in awhile they hit the nail on the head.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Yellow-Green Aura
Hmmm...I was told yesterday that I have a yellow-green aura. What does this even mean?
Well, as most know, I love research and so this is what I came up with:
Me, intimidating? Puh-leeze! However, I do believe that I am a great communicator. I also enjoy life, I am optimistic, and I try hard to see the bright side of any situation in life. I do like to put my feelings into words too.
Hmm... Do aura colors change or are you born with one and it stays the same your entire life? Guess I am going to have to find out.
http://www.personal-development-coach.net/aura-colors.html
Well, as most know, I love research and so this is what I came up with:
Yellow-Green
This aura color means that the person is a very good communicator and knows how to manage money. If this is your aura color you are persistent in everything you do, enjoy your life and are optimistic about the future. You are proactive and always look at the bright side of life.
You are creative and you can express your feelings perfectly into words.
People who have such aura are also perceived to be powerful and sometimes intimidating.
Me, intimidating? Puh-leeze! However, I do believe that I am a great communicator. I also enjoy life, I am optimistic, and I try hard to see the bright side of any situation in life. I do like to put my feelings into words too.
Hmm... Do aura colors change or are you born with one and it stays the same your entire life? Guess I am going to have to find out.
http://www.personal-development-coach.net/aura-colors.html
Friday, May 7, 2010
Off again, on again, the life of my friends...
:::Sigh:::
What is going on lately?
Friends are fighting. Friends are not talking. Friends are talking about leaving their significant other.
It makes me so sad when two people have a connection and they lose that.
I feel as if I don't have the perfect words to say. So I don't say anything. I listen. I have heard so much lately and it hurts my heart to realize that over something so minute two people decide to call it quits.
:::Sigh:::
It bothers me how quick people are to throw in the towel when things are rough and tough. From the outside looking in; it doesn't look so bad to have someone to come home to, someone to give that kiss to when you pass in the hallway, someone that knows your little quirks and choices you anyway. Sounds pretty good to me.
Now don't get me wrong I do know that there are situations that happen and a relationship should end; however, (no offense) this is not one of them.
I have to stop myself some times and remember that you can love someone so much and just sometimes being in love with that someone isn't anything like you thought it was. I do understand that this sounds contradictory, but even when one person loves another, if that love isn't returned, it really is nothing.
Love, to be that beautiful union that everyone secretly and not so secretly hopes for, needs both to want to love each other. Like I will say many times over and over, love is a lot of work, but at the end of the day when it's just the two of you laying there in bed---isn't it just worth it?
What is going on lately?
Friends are fighting. Friends are not talking. Friends are talking about leaving their significant other.
It makes me so sad when two people have a connection and they lose that.
I feel as if I don't have the perfect words to say. So I don't say anything. I listen. I have heard so much lately and it hurts my heart to realize that over something so minute two people decide to call it quits.
:::Sigh:::
It bothers me how quick people are to throw in the towel when things are rough and tough. From the outside looking in; it doesn't look so bad to have someone to come home to, someone to give that kiss to when you pass in the hallway, someone that knows your little quirks and choices you anyway. Sounds pretty good to me.
Now don't get me wrong I do know that there are situations that happen and a relationship should end; however, (no offense) this is not one of them.
I have to stop myself some times and remember that you can love someone so much and just sometimes being in love with that someone isn't anything like you thought it was. I do understand that this sounds contradictory, but even when one person loves another, if that love isn't returned, it really is nothing.
Love, to be that beautiful union that everyone secretly and not so secretly hopes for, needs both to want to love each other. Like I will say many times over and over, love is a lot of work, but at the end of the day when it's just the two of you laying there in bed---isn't it just worth it?
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Does size really matter...
Today I got measured for my correct bra size.
I read online quite often and I am always reading that 80% of women wear the incorrect bra size. Unfortunately, I knew I was in this range of people. I tend to try to minimize my breast some.
Anyway, I went and got measured and purchased all new bras (and matching panties) today---in the correct size.
I am excited to see if anyone notices the difference.
I read online quite often and I am always reading that 80% of women wear the incorrect bra size. Unfortunately, I knew I was in this range of people. I tend to try to minimize my breast some.
Anyway, I went and got measured and purchased all new bras (and matching panties) today---in the correct size.
I am excited to see if anyone notices the difference.
Advice
I was talking to one of my only single friends last night. He has been dating a few women in the last couple of months and came to ask me a few questions on the dating world.
I find this humorous---I am the last person to come to for dating advice. Seriously.
As he was spilling his dating history, I listened. I mean I really listened. I related so very much to what he was saying. I found myself being empathetic and than saying to myself I know exactly what you mean.
As the conversation progressed I got the dreaded "Do you have any advice?"
Again, like I have said and will continue to say, I am the very last person to come to for dating advice. I knew I had to say something--anything.
Beings I could relate to what he was telling me means that whatever advice or opinion I give, I better be able to accept myself. Scary.
Guess sometimes you have to take your own advice...
I find this humorous---I am the last person to come to for dating advice. Seriously.
As he was spilling his dating history, I listened. I mean I really listened. I related so very much to what he was saying. I found myself being empathetic and than saying to myself I know exactly what you mean.
As the conversation progressed I got the dreaded "Do you have any advice?"
Again, like I have said and will continue to say, I am the very last person to come to for dating advice. I knew I had to say something--anything.
Beings I could relate to what he was telling me means that whatever advice or opinion I give, I better be able to accept myself. Scary.
Guess sometimes you have to take your own advice...
Change, change, and possibly some more change...
Today I enjoyed a great afternoon with a friend. We had an amazing lunch at the Cheesecake Factory and than went shopping.
We laughed, talked, and just enjoyed the day. It was great.
As the afternoon went on I started to think about things that have been bothering me. After realizing that being bothered by these 'things' is not changing anything but me.
I don't want to change me. I like me. I am me. I love being a mom. I say please and thank you. I count ceiling tiles. I love to do research. I play video games. I laugh at cartoons. I value friendships. I desire love. I believe honesty is a must. I am extremely shy at first than let my crazy side be shown. I sleep with the TV on. I listen to my friends. What I am getting at is I have these traits because I want them. I like them. I like me.
So what do you do when there is something in your life that you don't like?
You change it.
It clicked to me today. If you change nothing, than nothing changes.
So with the things in life that bothers me or not giving me the result that I want. I need to change otherwise it will remain the same.
I can say confidently that there will be changes...
We laughed, talked, and just enjoyed the day. It was great.
As the afternoon went on I started to think about things that have been bothering me. After realizing that being bothered by these 'things' is not changing anything but me.
I don't want to change me. I like me. I am me. I love being a mom. I say please and thank you. I count ceiling tiles. I love to do research. I play video games. I laugh at cartoons. I value friendships. I desire love. I believe honesty is a must. I am extremely shy at first than let my crazy side be shown. I sleep with the TV on. I listen to my friends. What I am getting at is I have these traits because I want them. I like them. I like me.
So what do you do when there is something in your life that you don't like?
You change it.
It clicked to me today. If you change nothing, than nothing changes.
So with the things in life that bothers me or not giving me the result that I want. I need to change otherwise it will remain the same.
I can say confidently that there will be changes...
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Erase Someone
Have you ever wanted to forget someone?
I mean maybe it was someone you had feelings for and it just didn't work out or maybe you felt it was best for the other person or for what ever reason.
How do you erase someone from your thoughts? Do you consume yourself with life? Do you use the "out of sight, out of mind"?
My question really is...does it work? Would you really want it to work?
I do believe it works; however, you can erase someone from your mind, but you can't erase them from your heart.
Your heart can speak in ways that your mind can not understand.
Why do we fear what the heart is saying? Do we even listen?
My next question is what if you tried to erase someone from memory and you ruined something that could have been wonderful?
Isn't that what most of us are looking for? What most of us are wanting? Something wonderful. I think at times we push the things we want away. What I haven't figured out is why.
Any thoughts?
I mean maybe it was someone you had feelings for and it just didn't work out or maybe you felt it was best for the other person or for what ever reason.
How do you erase someone from your thoughts? Do you consume yourself with life? Do you use the "out of sight, out of mind"?
My question really is...does it work? Would you really want it to work?
I do believe it works; however, you can erase someone from your mind, but you can't erase them from your heart.
Your heart can speak in ways that your mind can not understand.
Why do we fear what the heart is saying? Do we even listen?
My next question is what if you tried to erase someone from memory and you ruined something that could have been wonderful?
Isn't that what most of us are looking for? What most of us are wanting? Something wonderful. I think at times we push the things we want away. What I haven't figured out is why.
Any thoughts?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
It's been 20 years...
Yesterday I went shopping---not any shopping---bike shopping.
I talked with a co-worker who referred me to the bike shop (mind you it is the only bike shop in town).
Regardless, I am an easy sale. When my mind is set on something I want I usually get it (as long as I can afford to do so).
Anyway, I walk into an old building which kinda smelled on the inside---not quite sure what it smelled of, but there was a distinguished scent. The gentleman quickly asked me what I was looking for and I explained "a bike". He asked me if I had a particular kind in mind and to be honest I had not a clue. I have researched bikes this week and learned about the different types, styles, and modifications, etc.
This gentleman must of seen that I had absolutely no clue. He pulled down a bike and started to explain features, types, styles, and the many other things. He showed me how the gears worked and how to disconnect the brake if needed to take the tire off, he explained different tire sizes and conveniences that are on the bike.
To be honest---I was overwhelmed. I just wanted a bike.
I smiled and listened attentively. I nodded and repeated information back. I asked questions and explained to this gentleman that I haven't been on a bike in 20 years. I asked him--halfway jokingly--if he could put training wheels on. He shot me a look and in which I immediately wanted to take back my comment. He said no.
After about 2 hours listening about differences in bikes I politely interrupted and said "I was sold before I walked into the door---I just don't know what to buy". The gentleman looked at me and said "I don't want you to buy a bike that you are not going to be happy with. Yes, it's great that you want to buy a bike, but I want you to have one you will enjoy'. I smiled and I understood.
After a bit longer I purchased a bike. My first bike since 5th grade. I had no clue on if I could even ride a bike anymore. I explained that I would be back the next day to pick up my new bike.
Today when I got off work I called a friend who owns a truck and asked them to pick me up so we could go and pick up my bike. I have to admit I was really excited. We got to the bike shop and the gentleman brought me out my bike. I noticed that there was things on it that was not on it the day before. He must of seen the obvious confusion on my face as he explained that he added things because he is worried. Even more confused at this point I managed to say it was not necessary and thank you. I mailed the bike shop a thank you card today for thier level of service, knowledge, the additives they deemed necessary, and thier friendliness.
Back to the story--I got home changed out of my work clothes and gathered my kids to go on our first bike ride. The kids were excited and we had a lot of fun. In fact the kids pooped out before I did.
I remembered how to ride a bike--I didn't fall. I did notice that I take some wide turns though. As of now I have a friend that I will go on a bike ride every Tuesday and Thursday and one weekend day--either Saturday or Sunday---whichever it might be.
Needless to say, I am really excited.
I talked with a co-worker who referred me to the bike shop (mind you it is the only bike shop in town).
Regardless, I am an easy sale. When my mind is set on something I want I usually get it (as long as I can afford to do so).
Anyway, I walk into an old building which kinda smelled on the inside---not quite sure what it smelled of, but there was a distinguished scent. The gentleman quickly asked me what I was looking for and I explained "a bike". He asked me if I had a particular kind in mind and to be honest I had not a clue. I have researched bikes this week and learned about the different types, styles, and modifications, etc.
This gentleman must of seen that I had absolutely no clue. He pulled down a bike and started to explain features, types, styles, and the many other things. He showed me how the gears worked and how to disconnect the brake if needed to take the tire off, he explained different tire sizes and conveniences that are on the bike.
To be honest---I was overwhelmed. I just wanted a bike.
I smiled and listened attentively. I nodded and repeated information back. I asked questions and explained to this gentleman that I haven't been on a bike in 20 years. I asked him--halfway jokingly--if he could put training wheels on. He shot me a look and in which I immediately wanted to take back my comment. He said no.
After about 2 hours listening about differences in bikes I politely interrupted and said "I was sold before I walked into the door---I just don't know what to buy". The gentleman looked at me and said "I don't want you to buy a bike that you are not going to be happy with. Yes, it's great that you want to buy a bike, but I want you to have one you will enjoy'. I smiled and I understood.
After a bit longer I purchased a bike. My first bike since 5th grade. I had no clue on if I could even ride a bike anymore. I explained that I would be back the next day to pick up my new bike.
Today when I got off work I called a friend who owns a truck and asked them to pick me up so we could go and pick up my bike. I have to admit I was really excited. We got to the bike shop and the gentleman brought me out my bike. I noticed that there was things on it that was not on it the day before. He must of seen the obvious confusion on my face as he explained that he added things because he is worried. Even more confused at this point I managed to say it was not necessary and thank you. I mailed the bike shop a thank you card today for thier level of service, knowledge, the additives they deemed necessary, and thier friendliness.
Back to the story--I got home changed out of my work clothes and gathered my kids to go on our first bike ride. The kids were excited and we had a lot of fun. In fact the kids pooped out before I did.
I remembered how to ride a bike--I didn't fall. I did notice that I take some wide turns though. As of now I have a friend that I will go on a bike ride every Tuesday and Thursday and one weekend day--either Saturday or Sunday---whichever it might be.
Needless to say, I am really excited.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
1920's
As the day ended at Adventure Land we decided to get an "antique" picture taken. Dalton really wanted to get a picture holding a "Tommy 20" (shown in the family picture) so we ended up posing in the 1920's era. One of my favorites also.
The kids had a great time posing and we have some great memories that happened to be caught on camera.
This picture gave me an idea...
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
The remote control
What is it with never being able to find the remote? More so when it is MY turn to watch TV?
I am starting to believe that my kids hide the remotes from me. I don't watch a lot of TV but every now and again I like to flip between the channels. Coincidence that the remote "disappears" when I am wanting to watch TV? I think not.
Don't get me wrong, it is not that big of a deal. I am sure that there is much worse that has happened to me and there will be worse that will happen. I just find it humerous that everytime that I want to watch something I have to tear the livingroom apart to be able to sit down and flip through the channels to realize that there is nothing on TV.
Of course I have confronted my kids on "losing" the remotes and they all act like that they have no cue what I am talking about.
How funny.
I am starting to believe that my kids hide the remotes from me. I don't watch a lot of TV but every now and again I like to flip between the channels. Coincidence that the remote "disappears" when I am wanting to watch TV? I think not.
Don't get me wrong, it is not that big of a deal. I am sure that there is much worse that has happened to me and there will be worse that will happen. I just find it humerous that everytime that I want to watch something I have to tear the livingroom apart to be able to sit down and flip through the channels to realize that there is nothing on TV.
Of course I have confronted my kids on "losing" the remotes and they all act like that they have no cue what I am talking about.
How funny.
Monday, April 26, 2010
Past meet my present
What do you do when your past tries to meet your present?
That is what happened for me today.
I woke up this morning with my phone saying I had a friend request on Facebook. I use my phone to access the request while I am still nice and warm under my covers. And there it is---the name of the person wanting to be my friend.
I was actually excited. I seen my dad's name. I click on his profile laughing that my dad even figured out how to make a Facebook account and imagining in my head what in the world would he be doing on Facebook.
I was wrong. It was not my dad. It was my brother.
I haven't spoken to my brother since my mom had her stroke in December 2001. That is a really long time. Dalton was only 4 months old, Ian was 2, and Tiana was 4. That's a lifetime ago.
I tossed the idea around in my head on accepting or not accepting the friend request. Maybe it is time to make "peace". I accepted his request.
My day got stranger. I got another blast from my past but this time it was an e-mail. This is more of a "recent" past---if that makes sense. A very simple e-mail stating "Hi. How have you been?" I have absolutely no intention of responding.
If you know me than you know I save everything that is ever sent to me in the form of an e-mail. Everyone that I have ever talked to via e-mail has their very own folder. Call me strange, weird, psycho---it don't matter to me.
Today I didn't add that e-mail to that folder.
Such a simple thing to most, but to me it was more. Not because I deleted the mean-nothing-to-me e-mail but because I changed my normal. I changed my routine.
And who says old dogs can't learn new tricks?
That is what happened for me today.
I woke up this morning with my phone saying I had a friend request on Facebook. I use my phone to access the request while I am still nice and warm under my covers. And there it is---the name of the person wanting to be my friend.
I was actually excited. I seen my dad's name. I click on his profile laughing that my dad even figured out how to make a Facebook account and imagining in my head what in the world would he be doing on Facebook.
I was wrong. It was not my dad. It was my brother.
I haven't spoken to my brother since my mom had her stroke in December 2001. That is a really long time. Dalton was only 4 months old, Ian was 2, and Tiana was 4. That's a lifetime ago.
I tossed the idea around in my head on accepting or not accepting the friend request. Maybe it is time to make "peace". I accepted his request.
My day got stranger. I got another blast from my past but this time it was an e-mail. This is more of a "recent" past---if that makes sense. A very simple e-mail stating "Hi. How have you been?" I have absolutely no intention of responding.
If you know me than you know I save everything that is ever sent to me in the form of an e-mail. Everyone that I have ever talked to via e-mail has their very own folder. Call me strange, weird, psycho---it don't matter to me.
Today I didn't add that e-mail to that folder.
Such a simple thing to most, but to me it was more. Not because I deleted the mean-nothing-to-me e-mail but because I changed my normal. I changed my routine.
And who says old dogs can't learn new tricks?
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Menards
Dalton asked me if we can plant a tree. I thought why not? I researched trees and narrowed down the types that I am interested in.
The White Dogwood is by far my favorite.
The Tulip Tree is a close second.
The Red Bud ranks up there too.
So a friend and my boys went to Menards to see what kind of trees that they have. None of the ones I am looking for. I have decided I might have to order one to be delivered. Which is fine. At least than I will have one that I want.
I love Menards. I can browse through there for hours. I can look at anything from sinks to fences and everything in between. I picked out a few things that I wanted but as I have been thinking that I think it is about time to relocate.
Anyway, as we walked around the store Dalton started asking me questions---random questions. He asked me why I don't have a boyfriend. My friend laughed hysterically. I tried to tell Dalton that it was not the time or the place to have that discussion. He didn't accept that and my friend said "Dalton maybe you should find your mom one."
Dalton took this literally. I have never been so embarassed in my life. Seriously. Dalton is not a shy person. I am going shopping alone for awhile.
Regardless, we left Menards without a tree---well without anything.
The White Dogwood is by far my favorite.
The Tulip Tree is a close second.
The Red Bud ranks up there too.
So a friend and my boys went to Menards to see what kind of trees that they have. None of the ones I am looking for. I have decided I might have to order one to be delivered. Which is fine. At least than I will have one that I want.
I love Menards. I can browse through there for hours. I can look at anything from sinks to fences and everything in between. I picked out a few things that I wanted but as I have been thinking that I think it is about time to relocate.
Anyway, as we walked around the store Dalton started asking me questions---random questions. He asked me why I don't have a boyfriend. My friend laughed hysterically. I tried to tell Dalton that it was not the time or the place to have that discussion. He didn't accept that and my friend said "Dalton maybe you should find your mom one."
Dalton took this literally. I have never been so embarassed in my life. Seriously. Dalton is not a shy person. I am going shopping alone for awhile.
Regardless, we left Menards without a tree---well without anything.
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Imagination
Tiana is babysitting this weekend and all the kids love having the baby around. I love watching them become "soft" around a baby.
Dalton decided this morning that we needed to watch Cloudy With A Chance of Meatballs. I didn't find anything unusual with this as we are a family who enjoys cartoons but I than heard him tell the baby "I picked this cartoon because it will help you have a great imagination when you get older. An imagination is important."
I laughed.
Dalton decided this morning that we needed to watch Cloudy With A Chance of Meatballs. I didn't find anything unusual with this as we are a family who enjoys cartoons but I than heard him tell the baby "I picked this cartoon because it will help you have a great imagination when you get older. An imagination is important."
I laughed.
Reading for fun
So this morning I caught Dalton reading without me asking him too! I had to capture this as usually I have to get on him on reading. Now maybe it was the book that had the "3D popouts" that caught his eye. I understand this; however, he was reading the words off the page.
I was excited.
He was excited about what he was reading as he called Tiana over to listen on how many rows of teeth the shark has. Dalton loves sharks. He wrote a book last year all about Sharks. It was made into a hard cover book and I keep it with the hard cover book that Tiana and Ian made for me.
Anyway, Dalton was very into this book. He was telling me all about the bones and about how the size of the animal compared to humans.
The first piture he was not happy with me as I was joking with him and said "I think you are making this stuff up---you aren't reading."
Cursive
Tiana was practicing cursive with Dalton in the kitchen and this is what they came out with. Although his "M" has one too many "humps" I still loved it! I can't judge any ones penmanship as I write very illegible.
My kids are always getting me to smile!
**Wish I would have used my camera to take the pictures and not my cell phone. My new phone takes awful pictures--it doesn't even have flash! I couldn't believe it. I was debating on taking it back just for that fact.**
Patient satisfaction survey
I did what I do every Friday morning at work. I log in to the computer, grab my water from the refrigerator, grab the mail from my mailbox, and listen to my voice mails. It is routine and if you know me than you know I do most things in a routine.
As I was going through my mail I came across a voucher. On the voucher it read "You have went above and beyond. You were mentioned on a patient satisfaction survey. Thank you Heather." I won't lie it made me smile. I guess I am not sure what the voucher is for, I am assuming I can take it to HR and they give what the community calls "commerce bucks" and it can be used at 50 or so different businesses. I think I am going to keep the voucher as I like little 'reminders' as such.
Now this puts in perspective why my boss put me on the spot in the clerical meeting we had on Thursday. We had a little discussion on how to treat others internal and external customers. I was asked to explain how I conduct my phone etiquette. Not knowing why I was asked I just explained how I answer the phone and how I follow through with what I said I was going to do. I thought that was normally what others do. (At the hospital we use AIDET, which is Acknowledge, Introduce, Duration, Explain, and Thank.)
The meeting continued on about how there has been complaints internally and externally about how people are being treated over the phone. We were told we need to ask everyone what can I do for you and than do it regardless of how busy or how we do not think it is part of our job.
Not sure exactly how I feel about that.
Yes, I am all for going over and beyond my job duties. Yes, I am all willing to help out a co-worker. I am not liking the idea of asking my co-workers everytime I talk to them if there is something I can do for them---cause guess what---they will have things each and every time.
Regardless I did appreciate getting mentioned on a patient satisfaction survey. Curiousity has wanting me to know who it was but they are annoymous. I will find out next department meeting what was said about me.
As I was going through my mail I came across a voucher. On the voucher it read "You have went above and beyond. You were mentioned on a patient satisfaction survey. Thank you Heather." I won't lie it made me smile. I guess I am not sure what the voucher is for, I am assuming I can take it to HR and they give what the community calls "commerce bucks" and it can be used at 50 or so different businesses. I think I am going to keep the voucher as I like little 'reminders' as such.
Now this puts in perspective why my boss put me on the spot in the clerical meeting we had on Thursday. We had a little discussion on how to treat others internal and external customers. I was asked to explain how I conduct my phone etiquette. Not knowing why I was asked I just explained how I answer the phone and how I follow through with what I said I was going to do. I thought that was normally what others do. (At the hospital we use AIDET, which is Acknowledge, Introduce, Duration, Explain, and Thank.)
The meeting continued on about how there has been complaints internally and externally about how people are being treated over the phone. We were told we need to ask everyone what can I do for you and than do it regardless of how busy or how we do not think it is part of our job.
Not sure exactly how I feel about that.
Yes, I am all for going over and beyond my job duties. Yes, I am all willing to help out a co-worker. I am not liking the idea of asking my co-workers everytime I talk to them if there is something I can do for them---cause guess what---they will have things each and every time.
Regardless I did appreciate getting mentioned on a patient satisfaction survey. Curiousity has wanting me to know who it was but they are annoymous. I will find out next department meeting what was said about me.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Sticky notes---galore!
I arrive to work this morning and there are multiple different sticky notes on my monitor. I find this funny--very funny.
Normally I am the first to leave work as I am the first to arrive. So, usually when I come in to the office I notice something is missing off my desk. My pens, my rubber band ball, my sticky notes, my tuna creations, my scissors, my stapler, etc.
I have made the comment apparently one too many times--"if you want something of mine that is fine; however, please just leave me a note so I know". This way I won't wonder all day if I misplaced it or even better yet decide who (in my head) took the items.
Well, back to this morning and the sticky notes plastered on my monitor. I had multiple sticky's which stated "I took your yellow stickys---coworkers name", "I ate your almonds", "I took your pen--I like how it writes", "Heather, I will be late tomorrow", "Thanks!, etc".
Funny, my co-workers are funny.
At least I know my stuff was taken.
Normally I am the first to leave work as I am the first to arrive. So, usually when I come in to the office I notice something is missing off my desk. My pens, my rubber band ball, my sticky notes, my tuna creations, my scissors, my stapler, etc.
I have made the comment apparently one too many times--"if you want something of mine that is fine; however, please just leave me a note so I know". This way I won't wonder all day if I misplaced it or even better yet decide who (in my head) took the items.
Well, back to this morning and the sticky notes plastered on my monitor. I had multiple sticky's which stated "I took your yellow stickys---coworkers name", "I ate your almonds", "I took your pen--I like how it writes", "Heather, I will be late tomorrow", "Thanks!, etc".
Funny, my co-workers are funny.
At least I know my stuff was taken.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Great surprise!
Today I was at work minding my own business. I was actually completing the paperwork for the discrepancies on the time studies (time cards for employees)that I have found. I have to compare travel time to mileage to make sure people are not stating it takes 50 minutes to drive 3 miles. I have to look and make sure that they are honest on how many miles from client A to client B. I also look to make sure that they are not asking to get paid for things like driving to the office at the start of the day or to lunch, etc. Well that is the basics but there are some more.
Anyway, that is what I was doing when someone walked in and handed me a gift bag that had a card, a book, and a lottery ticket! What a fantastic Tuesday surprise! The things that mean the most to me are the thought behind something. To bring me a gift for no reason means much more than one which (I hate to say it this way) "expected". Let me explain. I don't ever expect a gift, but I am meaning a time like a birthday, holiday, etc. Does that make sense?
Regardless the card is sitting on my desk and tonight I am going to start reading the book. The lottery ticket was not a winner--but it was still fun.
This unexpected, amazing surprise made me appreciate all the people in my life. I have great friends and great family.
Anyway, that is what I was doing when someone walked in and handed me a gift bag that had a card, a book, and a lottery ticket! What a fantastic Tuesday surprise! The things that mean the most to me are the thought behind something. To bring me a gift for no reason means much more than one which (I hate to say it this way) "expected". Let me explain. I don't ever expect a gift, but I am meaning a time like a birthday, holiday, etc. Does that make sense?
Regardless the card is sitting on my desk and tonight I am going to start reading the book. The lottery ticket was not a winner--but it was still fun.
This unexpected, amazing surprise made me appreciate all the people in my life. I have great friends and great family.
Lotus Touts
I received this e-mail a total of 18 times in the last week. I enjoyed it every time.
Lotus Touts
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as Important as any other.
THREE. Don`t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I`m sorry," look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone`s dreams. People who don`t have dreams don`t have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it`s the only way to live life completely.
TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don`t judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don`t want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don`t lose the lesson
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R`s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don`t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you`ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
Remember this: A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
Lotus Touts
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as Important as any other.
THREE. Don`t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I`m sorry," look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone`s dreams. People who don`t have dreams don`t have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it`s the only way to live life completely.
TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don`t judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don`t want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don`t lose the lesson
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R`s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don`t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you`ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
Remember this: A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Guilty and happy all rolled into one..
I feel guilty. Not because I have done anything wrong, but for how I feel.
This weekend a few friends and I went up to Cedar Rapids to visit another friend. During this trip we celebrated the April birthdays.
We started off with getting ready in our "black dresses" and the guys actually dressed up too. We went out to eat and made it to the Extreme Midget wrestling show. I am telling you the wrestling ring was tiny. It was at least half the size of a normal ring if not more.
I ended up getting an autographed picture from one of the midgets 'Bad Boy Brian". During the show the wrestlers would yell out to the crowd and get all the drunkards to yell back. Started off with "the women in Iowa are flat chested and if we didn't agree to prove it." The crowd was booing and cheering on their favorite wrestler and the wrestlers were definitely playing the crowd.
My best friend and I decided to be a couple that night as we walked around holding hands, laughing, buying each others drinks, and possibly a kiss here and there to show that we were "together". (We have been best friends since I was 13. Her boyfriend didn't come out with her and well I was available so we made the best of it.)
After the Extreme Midget Wrestling we went to a few bars. We sang karaoke, laughed, danced, and really had a very good time.
This is when I started to think. This is where I start feeling guilty.
I just realized I am the only single person in my group of friends. I was slightly jealous. I dislike jealousy in all forms so I am angry at myself for feeling this way. Don't get me wrong I am so very happy for all my friends--truly I am.
The friend we visited up in Cedar Rapids just met a great guy who is very supportive of her starting her photography business. They just met in December and are talking of getting married. This is my second friend who has met someone and quickly got married this year alone.
I listened to all the stories from my friends of how 'they' (meaning my friend and their partner) are going to do this, or how 'they' were surprised with that, or how 'they' met, or how 'they' fell in love, or what funny quirk 'they' have.
I never felt so alone or so excluded in a very long time.
All in all this weekend was a blast. I wouldn't change a thing. In fact I even tried a new food--sushi. I think I can go forever without ever having sushi. I can't believe people actually like this. I thought shrimp was the only food that grossed me out---I was sadly mistaken.
This weekend a few friends and I went up to Cedar Rapids to visit another friend. During this trip we celebrated the April birthdays.
We started off with getting ready in our "black dresses" and the guys actually dressed up too. We went out to eat and made it to the Extreme Midget wrestling show. I am telling you the wrestling ring was tiny. It was at least half the size of a normal ring if not more.
I ended up getting an autographed picture from one of the midgets 'Bad Boy Brian". During the show the wrestlers would yell out to the crowd and get all the drunkards to yell back. Started off with "the women in Iowa are flat chested and if we didn't agree to prove it." The crowd was booing and cheering on their favorite wrestler and the wrestlers were definitely playing the crowd.
My best friend and I decided to be a couple that night as we walked around holding hands, laughing, buying each others drinks, and possibly a kiss here and there to show that we were "together". (We have been best friends since I was 13. Her boyfriend didn't come out with her and well I was available so we made the best of it.)
After the Extreme Midget Wrestling we went to a few bars. We sang karaoke, laughed, danced, and really had a very good time.
This is when I started to think. This is where I start feeling guilty.
I just realized I am the only single person in my group of friends. I was slightly jealous. I dislike jealousy in all forms so I am angry at myself for feeling this way. Don't get me wrong I am so very happy for all my friends--truly I am.
The friend we visited up in Cedar Rapids just met a great guy who is very supportive of her starting her photography business. They just met in December and are talking of getting married. This is my second friend who has met someone and quickly got married this year alone.
I listened to all the stories from my friends of how 'they' (meaning my friend and their partner) are going to do this, or how 'they' were surprised with that, or how 'they' met, or how 'they' fell in love, or what funny quirk 'they' have.
I never felt so alone or so excluded in a very long time.
All in all this weekend was a blast. I wouldn't change a thing. In fact I even tried a new food--sushi. I think I can go forever without ever having sushi. I can't believe people actually like this. I thought shrimp was the only food that grossed me out---I was sadly mistaken.
Thursday, April 15, 2010
New favorite
I found a new favorite---spinach and mandrian orange salad with a poppy seed dressing. I had this for the first time last weekend in Des Moines (but with strawberries) and have been wanting it. Happy to say, I enjoyed it for lunch (without strawberries). Yummy!
Irritating, confusion, and dizziness...
This morning started with a mandatory meeting at the Bridgeview Center. Nothing of importance was mentioned. The hospital still doesn't know the new benefit package we will be receiving with the new company that purchased us. I can say this is slightly irritating as the sale was supposed to be completed March 31st and now is expected April 30th. Regardless we were told that in the next week or two we should know our new benefits.
After the meeting I went to work and you could feel the tension in the air from co-workers. It was one of those days that I was afraid to speak as someone was going to fly off the handle---and they did. Everyone at work is stressed out with the sell of the hospital as it means we have to discharge and readmit all of our clients. Which means long hours and lots of paperwork.
On a totally different note I receive a text from my bank that I had a deposit into my account. Confused as I wasn't expecting a deposit and more so over the amount. I logged into the online banking to see a child support payment of $26.73 was deposited in my account. I log on to child support recovery to see what is going on and I discovered that my first ex husband made his first child support payment. I thought that was a very unusual amount, but oh well.
Today is one of those days that I want to spin in circles till I become dizzy and than fall back in a bed of grass and laugh. Yup, that is what I am going to do after supper.
After the meeting I went to work and you could feel the tension in the air from co-workers. It was one of those days that I was afraid to speak as someone was going to fly off the handle---and they did. Everyone at work is stressed out with the sell of the hospital as it means we have to discharge and readmit all of our clients. Which means long hours and lots of paperwork.
On a totally different note I receive a text from my bank that I had a deposit into my account. Confused as I wasn't expecting a deposit and more so over the amount. I logged into the online banking to see a child support payment of $26.73 was deposited in my account. I log on to child support recovery to see what is going on and I discovered that my first ex husband made his first child support payment. I thought that was a very unusual amount, but oh well.
Today is one of those days that I want to spin in circles till I become dizzy and than fall back in a bed of grass and laugh. Yup, that is what I am going to do after supper.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Moments...
Today at lunch I decided to do a couple of errands. Life has been chaotic and so I thought I could spend more time with my kids before class if I did my errands over lunch.
While out driving I noticed a small field of grass. As I stopped at the stop light I seen the wind moving through each blade of grass in which it made the grass quiver. It gave me a feeling of amazement, of happiness, of peace. It changed my day.
I got off work early today (my kids got out of school early too). I wanted to surprise them and spend the few hours I had before class with them. We talked about the day, the weather, and what the future brings. We laughed and teased. We hugged and smiled.
When I got out of class I talked to a friend. We shared dreams, wants, and much laughter. It warmed my heart.
I got home and sat outside to see the clear dark sky with millions of bright stars. It was so peaceful, so serene, so perfect. The wind was still, the night was silent, and the stars were bright. What a perfect night.
These are the moments in life that I live for.
While out driving I noticed a small field of grass. As I stopped at the stop light I seen the wind moving through each blade of grass in which it made the grass quiver. It gave me a feeling of amazement, of happiness, of peace. It changed my day.
I got off work early today (my kids got out of school early too). I wanted to surprise them and spend the few hours I had before class with them. We talked about the day, the weather, and what the future brings. We laughed and teased. We hugged and smiled.
When I got out of class I talked to a friend. We shared dreams, wants, and much laughter. It warmed my heart.
I got home and sat outside to see the clear dark sky with millions of bright stars. It was so peaceful, so serene, so perfect. The wind was still, the night was silent, and the stars were bright. What a perfect night.
These are the moments in life that I live for.
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Reading...
I am super excited as when I returned home my book that I purchased was waiting for me. I am now the proud owner of "The Element Encyclopedia of Birthdays". I have skimmed through and read my kids birthdays and a few other days.
As I have said before I do not live my life for horoscopes or astrology; however, I do have an interest. I like to compare them to my day and see how correct that they are. Sometimes they are dead on and other times they are completely off mark. Regardless, it entertains me.
As I have said before I do not live my life for horoscopes or astrology; however, I do have an interest. I like to compare them to my day and see how correct that they are. Sometimes they are dead on and other times they are completely off mark. Regardless, it entertains me.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Who would notice?
Do you ever think of who would actually care? I do. Sometimes I wonder if people would attempt to find me if I wasn't around. Who would notice if I was gone? Seen this picture and it made me think of that very thought.
Don't get me wrong, I have the best friends and family in the world and if they don't hear from me in a few days they become stalkers...well the ones I talk to on a daily basis do. It makes a person feel really good to know that they are thought about and missed.
Disclaimer: I am not saying run away to see who will come after you--that is a bit dramatic.
Don't get me wrong, I have the best friends and family in the world and if they don't hear from me in a few days they become stalkers...well the ones I talk to on a daily basis do. It makes a person feel really good to know that they are thought about and missed.
Disclaimer: I am not saying run away to see who will come after you--that is a bit dramatic.
Encyclopedia of Birthdays....
Today I went to the substance abuse unit at the hospital and now that they are closing in three weeks everyone is packing up their belongings. In doing this one of the counselors had a book laying out "The Element Encyclopedia of Birthdays". Now most know that I love astrology. In saying this, it does not mean that I live by horoscopes or astrology, but I do enjoy reading about different possibilities.
Well, a bit about the book--you basically look up the day you were born and it lists "your true personality and reveals your destiny"--so it proclaims.
I do want to find this book for my collection. It was interesting.
Here is what I read on my birthday:
"The birthday of sensitive exuberance"
Like a ray of warm sunshine, the exuberant, energetic individuals born on November 18 have the ability to enliven any situation with their good cheer, optimism and humor. They are refreshingly upbeat in their approach to everyone and everything, and not surprisingly their company is much sought after.
Not only do they enjoy being the center of attention, they are also fiercely ambitious, making them natural candidates for leadership. Those who do not know them well, however, would be surprised to discover that underneath the happy face they present to the world there can be a lot of uncertainty and conflict. This is because they are unusually sensitive to the feelings of others, sometimes to the extent that they don't know where their feelings end and another person's begin. As a result, despite their clear potential and suitability to be winners or innovators in life, they often end up feeling confused, purposeless and directionless.
If they can find a way to balance their sensitivity toward others with their ambitious urge to realize their own life goals, their success is assured. If, however, the balance tilts in either direction they can lose a sense of direction; the indecisiveness that results can stunt their psychological growth, blocking their chances of professional and personal success.
Until the age of thirty-three there is an emphasis in their lives on issues relating to freedom, adventure and expansion. They may want to study, travel or experiment with their choice of career in these years. After the age of thirty-four there is an important turning point when they are likely to become more responsible, precise and practical in their approach to life, seeking structure and order. Whatever age they are, however, they need to use their sharp and probing mind to investigate their own power and potential. This is because with greater self-awareness and greater belief in their star potential--and a lot of dedication and hard work--these vivacious individuals can achieve almost anything they set their mind to.
LOVE (Exceptionally responsive)
People born on November 18 can be fun, sexy, entertaining, responsive, and romantic as long as their partner gives them plenty of attention and affection. But if the reassurance they need isn't given, they can lapse into attention-seeking behavior and temperamental mood swings. It is important for them to make sure they are with a partner who is as giving and energetic as they are.
HEALTH (Boosting self-esteem)
People born on this day tend to have a rather negative image of themselves, and this can make them prone to stress and depression. Boosting their self-esteem is therefore absolutely crucial to both their physical and emotional health. The place to start is in their heads, and cognitive behavioral therapy techniques may be able to help them reprogram their thoughts from negative to positive. Spending more time with people who are upbeat and optimistic, and avoiding those who are glum and self-involved, will also help, as will a diet rich in fresh, natural produce and low in refined or processed foods. Regular moderate to vigorous exercise is also highly recommended for its mood-boosting and health-boosting effects, as well as for building up discipline and will-power. Carrying a tiger's eye crystal or placing it next to their bed at night will have a balancing and calming effect, promoting greater confidence and courage.
CAREER (Born innovators)
People born on this day may be drawn to careers in science, research or technology where they can be potential innovators, as well as the world of art, music, and literature, where they can excel as writers. Once they believe more in themselves, other career options might include business, teaching, lecturing, politics, and the world of entertainment.
DESTINY (To point others in the direction of progress)
The life of people born on this day is to learn to believe in themselves and their creativity more. Once they are able to discover their sense of purpose, their destiny is to achieve or point the way to tangible progress on behalf of themselves and others.
YOUR GREATEST CHALLENGE IS....BEING DECISIVE. The way forward is to ask yourself when choosing between options what you really want to happen, not what others expect. Once you are attuned to your feelings, decision making gets a whole lot easier.
YOU'RE DRAWN TO PEOPLE BORN ON....March 21 to April 19. You are both energetic and outgoing, and this can be a passionate and fulfilling union.
LUCK MATTER....BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. How lucky you are in life is directly related to how much you believe you are worthy of luck. The more you think that success and happiness are your birthright, the luckier you will behave and be.
ON THE DARK SIDE---Needy, moody, and confused.
AT YOUR BEST---Innovative, entertaining, vivacious.
POWER THOUGHT--"I believe in myself. Anything is possible."
SIGNS & SYMBOLS
Sun sign: Scorpio
Ruling planet: Mars, the warrior
Symbol: The Scorpion
Birth date ruler: Mars, the warrior
Tarot card: The Moon (imagination)
Favorable numbers: 2 & 9
Lucky days: Tuesday, especially when these days fall on 2 and 9 of the month.
Lucky colors: All shades of red
Birthstone: Topaz
Well, a bit about the book--you basically look up the day you were born and it lists "your true personality and reveals your destiny"--so it proclaims.
I do want to find this book for my collection. It was interesting.
Here is what I read on my birthday:
"The birthday of sensitive exuberance"
Like a ray of warm sunshine, the exuberant, energetic individuals born on November 18 have the ability to enliven any situation with their good cheer, optimism and humor. They are refreshingly upbeat in their approach to everyone and everything, and not surprisingly their company is much sought after.
Not only do they enjoy being the center of attention, they are also fiercely ambitious, making them natural candidates for leadership. Those who do not know them well, however, would be surprised to discover that underneath the happy face they present to the world there can be a lot of uncertainty and conflict. This is because they are unusually sensitive to the feelings of others, sometimes to the extent that they don't know where their feelings end and another person's begin. As a result, despite their clear potential and suitability to be winners or innovators in life, they often end up feeling confused, purposeless and directionless.
If they can find a way to balance their sensitivity toward others with their ambitious urge to realize their own life goals, their success is assured. If, however, the balance tilts in either direction they can lose a sense of direction; the indecisiveness that results can stunt their psychological growth, blocking their chances of professional and personal success.
Until the age of thirty-three there is an emphasis in their lives on issues relating to freedom, adventure and expansion. They may want to study, travel or experiment with their choice of career in these years. After the age of thirty-four there is an important turning point when they are likely to become more responsible, precise and practical in their approach to life, seeking structure and order. Whatever age they are, however, they need to use their sharp and probing mind to investigate their own power and potential. This is because with greater self-awareness and greater belief in their star potential--and a lot of dedication and hard work--these vivacious individuals can achieve almost anything they set their mind to.
LOVE (Exceptionally responsive)
People born on November 18 can be fun, sexy, entertaining, responsive, and romantic as long as their partner gives them plenty of attention and affection. But if the reassurance they need isn't given, they can lapse into attention-seeking behavior and temperamental mood swings. It is important for them to make sure they are with a partner who is as giving and energetic as they are.
HEALTH (Boosting self-esteem)
People born on this day tend to have a rather negative image of themselves, and this can make them prone to stress and depression. Boosting their self-esteem is therefore absolutely crucial to both their physical and emotional health. The place to start is in their heads, and cognitive behavioral therapy techniques may be able to help them reprogram their thoughts from negative to positive. Spending more time with people who are upbeat and optimistic, and avoiding those who are glum and self-involved, will also help, as will a diet rich in fresh, natural produce and low in refined or processed foods. Regular moderate to vigorous exercise is also highly recommended for its mood-boosting and health-boosting effects, as well as for building up discipline and will-power. Carrying a tiger's eye crystal or placing it next to their bed at night will have a balancing and calming effect, promoting greater confidence and courage.
CAREER (Born innovators)
People born on this day may be drawn to careers in science, research or technology where they can be potential innovators, as well as the world of art, music, and literature, where they can excel as writers. Once they believe more in themselves, other career options might include business, teaching, lecturing, politics, and the world of entertainment.
DESTINY (To point others in the direction of progress)
The life of people born on this day is to learn to believe in themselves and their creativity more. Once they are able to discover their sense of purpose, their destiny is to achieve or point the way to tangible progress on behalf of themselves and others.
YOUR GREATEST CHALLENGE IS....BEING DECISIVE. The way forward is to ask yourself when choosing between options what you really want to happen, not what others expect. Once you are attuned to your feelings, decision making gets a whole lot easier.
YOU'RE DRAWN TO PEOPLE BORN ON....March 21 to April 19. You are both energetic and outgoing, and this can be a passionate and fulfilling union.
LUCK MATTER....BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. How lucky you are in life is directly related to how much you believe you are worthy of luck. The more you think that success and happiness are your birthright, the luckier you will behave and be.
ON THE DARK SIDE---Needy, moody, and confused.
AT YOUR BEST---Innovative, entertaining, vivacious.
POWER THOUGHT--"I believe in myself. Anything is possible."
SIGNS & SYMBOLS
Sun sign: Scorpio
Ruling planet: Mars, the warrior
Symbol: The Scorpion
Birth date ruler: Mars, the warrior
Tarot card: The Moon (imagination)
Favorable numbers: 2 & 9
Lucky days: Tuesday, especially when these days fall on 2 and 9 of the month.
Lucky colors: All shades of red
Birthstone: Topaz
What side of brain do you use?
I was sitting here thinking about what side of the brain do I use. I mean I figure that I use both my right side and my left side but I am curious to know what side I use normally--what my dominant side is.
I did some research and came to an optical illusion of a woman spinning on one leg. If you seen her spinning clockwise you use your right side and if you see her spinning counter clockwise you use your left side of your brain. Well, it didn't seem to help me much as I could see her spin both ways---both counter clockwise and clockwise. Well, it seems to me that this is more of an optical illusion over a "test" to know what side of the brain I use.
Here is a link to the spinning woman:
http://www.where-what-how-why.com/?p=111
As I was skeptical of the spinning woman I decided to take a "quiz" to see what my results would be. As for the quiz I use my left side of my brain more than my right side. Hmm...
Basically, it goes like this:
Left Brain:
Logical
Sequential
Rational
Analytical
Objective
Looks at parts
Right Brain:
Random
Intuitive
Holistic Synthesizing
Subjective
Looks at wholes
As, I do see myself as using both parts of my brain, I do have to agree that I am left side dominant. (although I am a horrible speller and I am pretty random)
I did some research and came to an optical illusion of a woman spinning on one leg. If you seen her spinning clockwise you use your right side and if you see her spinning counter clockwise you use your left side of your brain. Well, it didn't seem to help me much as I could see her spin both ways---both counter clockwise and clockwise. Well, it seems to me that this is more of an optical illusion over a "test" to know what side of the brain I use.
Here is a link to the spinning woman:
http://www.where-what-how-why.com/?p=111
As I was skeptical of the spinning woman I decided to take a "quiz" to see what my results would be. As for the quiz I use my left side of my brain more than my right side. Hmm...
| Which Side of your Brain Do You Use? Your Result: Left Side The left side of the brain processes information in a linear manner. It processes from part to whole. It takes pieces, lines them up, and arranges them in a logical order; then it draws conclusions. You look at the details not the big picture. You use logic not imagination. The left brained person is a list maker. You would enjoy making master schedules and and daily planning. Learning things in sequence is easy for you. You are probability a good speller. Left-brained people memorize vocabulary words or math formulas better. You also use logic. When you read and listen, you look for the pieces so that you can draw logical conclusions. The left side of the brain deals with things the way they are-with reality. When left brain students are affected by the environment, they usually adjust to it. Left brain people want to know the rules and follow them. So basically you are smart! Congratulations! | |
| Right Side | |
| Which Side of your Brain Do You Use? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz | |
Basically, it goes like this:
Left Brain:
Logical
Sequential
Rational
Analytical
Objective
Looks at parts
Right Brain:
Random
Intuitive
Holistic Synthesizing
Subjective
Looks at wholes
As, I do see myself as using both parts of my brain, I do have to agree that I am left side dominant. (although I am a horrible speller and I am pretty random)
Next couple of weekends...
I am super excited over my next couple of weekends.
I will be in Des Moines this up coming weekend--which is always a good time. The following weekend is the little black dress party in Cedar Rapids/Iowa City.
Des Moines is always a welcomed trip as every night that I have spent there has been--lets say for lose of better words--interesting. I am sure that this night will be the same.
The little black dress party is going to be a blast. It always is when my best friend and I get together. There will be a group of us that will be going to celebrate two friends birthdays. I have my dress and accessories and can't wait to go out and make a fool of myself. It seems that alcohol brings that out in me.
Needless to say I am looking forward to both nights!!
I will be in Des Moines this up coming weekend--which is always a good time. The following weekend is the little black dress party in Cedar Rapids/Iowa City.
Des Moines is always a welcomed trip as every night that I have spent there has been--lets say for lose of better words--interesting. I am sure that this night will be the same.
The little black dress party is going to be a blast. It always is when my best friend and I get together. There will be a group of us that will be going to celebrate two friends birthdays. I have my dress and accessories and can't wait to go out and make a fool of myself. It seems that alcohol brings that out in me.
Needless to say I am looking forward to both nights!!
Easter Morning
I did what a mother does, I waited for the kids to fall asleep and than I hid the Easter eggs through the living room. The boys woke up at 5:45 in the morning and down to Tiana's room they went to wake her too.
As I get up and walk to the living room, I notice that a lot of the eggs are not where I put them. Confused as there was a pile of them on the middle of the living room floor. I sit down on the couch and than Einstein shows himself. He was knocking them down and batting them around the room.
The kids found all the eggs and than the fun begins. We hide plastic eggs as my kids always leave me to dye the hard boiled eggs by myself. So it works better for us to just use plastic ones. I enclose candy and money in them so it works out best for them too. Dalton found the most money this year, Ian in a close second, and Tiana, well, lets say she had a pathetic finish.
It was a great to watch them hunt for the eggs and it makes me realize I don't have many more of those years left. How fast they grow. In fact, I think my kids just humor me through most of the holidays.
Now, it is time to make pina colada cake.
As I get up and walk to the living room, I notice that a lot of the eggs are not where I put them. Confused as there was a pile of them on the middle of the living room floor. I sit down on the couch and than Einstein shows himself. He was knocking them down and batting them around the room.
The kids found all the eggs and than the fun begins. We hide plastic eggs as my kids always leave me to dye the hard boiled eggs by myself. So it works better for us to just use plastic ones. I enclose candy and money in them so it works out best for them too. Dalton found the most money this year, Ian in a close second, and Tiana, well, lets say she had a pathetic finish.
It was a great to watch them hunt for the eggs and it makes me realize I don't have many more of those years left. How fast they grow. In fact, I think my kids just humor me through most of the holidays.
Now, it is time to make pina colada cake.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Love makes the world go 'round
What is true love? That is the question that a friend asked me today. It’s hard to describe love in words--none seem to quite fit. I mean words don’t seem to be able to express the feeling of love. I can say that any love is true. If you love someone—wouldn’t it be true?
I believe love is finding harmony, support and comfort in someone’s arms.
I believe that love is a great feeling of being accepted and belonging to someone’s world and accepting them in yours. That there is a permanent smile in your heart.
Love equals life. Life with someone and for that someone; when nothing else matters and yet everything does.
Confused yet?
Love is being happy, but not for yourself— but for the other person. Sometimes this means letting go to let the other person be happy.
A person that is so extraordinary and spectacular that when they look at you they touch your very soul. They can speak to your heart with just a smile. Thier kiss makes the world seem to stand still.
When this person smiles at you they speak to your heart--you know everything is going to be okay.
Love is when you prefer to be together through hard times rather than having it easy separately.
It is fighting for what you think is right for the both of you. It is holding on and hanging in each time things go wrong. It is supporting each other in the smallest and biggest of decisions or actions. Love is standing by when the whole world turns its back to you. It is being there even if they didn’t ask you. Love is knowing that they would do the same.
Love equals power.
Love gives the power to someone to destroy you, to hurt you, to break your heart, but trusting them not to. No matter what goes on or how badly you fight or what mistakes you make, you will love that one person without question.
Love is finding someone who is your friend, your partner, someone who is the right fit for you. This someone will touch your life so intensely and gives you a whole new reason to breathe. They will give you a reason to dream at night, a reason to wake each morning, a reason to live.
This person will make you smile when you want to cry. They will want to hear your voice before you fall asleep. They will understand you and love your quirks. They will believe in you. They will accept you. They will understand your imperfections. They will tell you daily how they feel. This person will be with you regardless of anything---nothing would matter as they would want to be there for you.
Love is a big responsibility. It is communicating; sharing thoughts, cares, concerns, wants, needs, emotions, and listening. Now don’t get me wrong. Love is a whole lot of work. It doesn’t come easy. You have to overcome challenges---fight to be together. Love means to hold on and not to let go.
Love does not just happen. You can find love but you have to work hard to keep it--to make it a beautiful union. If both people work for love you can have it for a lifetime.
After talking to my friend about what true love means to me. I did a lot of thinking—a lot of deep down thinking. I want to put my heart, my soul, my energy in to love as love is what makes the world go ‘round.
I believe love is finding harmony, support and comfort in someone’s arms.
I believe that love is a great feeling of being accepted and belonging to someone’s world and accepting them in yours. That there is a permanent smile in your heart.
Love equals life. Life with someone and for that someone; when nothing else matters and yet everything does.
Confused yet?
Love is being happy, but not for yourself— but for the other person. Sometimes this means letting go to let the other person be happy.
A person that is so extraordinary and spectacular that when they look at you they touch your very soul. They can speak to your heart with just a smile. Thier kiss makes the world seem to stand still.
When this person smiles at you they speak to your heart--you know everything is going to be okay.
Love is when you prefer to be together through hard times rather than having it easy separately.
It is fighting for what you think is right for the both of you. It is holding on and hanging in each time things go wrong. It is supporting each other in the smallest and biggest of decisions or actions. Love is standing by when the whole world turns its back to you. It is being there even if they didn’t ask you. Love is knowing that they would do the same.
Love equals power.
Love gives the power to someone to destroy you, to hurt you, to break your heart, but trusting them not to. No matter what goes on or how badly you fight or what mistakes you make, you will love that one person without question.
Love is finding someone who is your friend, your partner, someone who is the right fit for you. This someone will touch your life so intensely and gives you a whole new reason to breathe. They will give you a reason to dream at night, a reason to wake each morning, a reason to live.
This person will make you smile when you want to cry. They will want to hear your voice before you fall asleep. They will understand you and love your quirks. They will believe in you. They will accept you. They will understand your imperfections. They will tell you daily how they feel. This person will be with you regardless of anything---nothing would matter as they would want to be there for you.
Love is a big responsibility. It is communicating; sharing thoughts, cares, concerns, wants, needs, emotions, and listening. Now don’t get me wrong. Love is a whole lot of work. It doesn’t come easy. You have to overcome challenges---fight to be together. Love means to hold on and not to let go.
Love does not just happen. You can find love but you have to work hard to keep it--to make it a beautiful union. If both people work for love you can have it for a lifetime.
After talking to my friend about what true love means to me. I did a lot of thinking—a lot of deep down thinking. I want to put my heart, my soul, my energy in to love as love is what makes the world go ‘round.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Drive back to Iowa
The trip home was long--very long.
We woke up first thing in the morning and was making great time. Dalton couldn't stand being in the car anymore so about every 45 minutes or so I had to hear "Mom, I have to go to the bathroom." It got old quick, but we always took the next exit. This made for an extended time in the car.
As the kids watched movies or played on their DSI's, I drove. I occasionally sent a text or two and actually got a lot of phone time in.
I called my dad and asked him to buy me a camero. Of course he wouldn't nor would I actually want him to. I do have to say I really, really want a camero. Maybe that is what I will get when I finally graduate--we will see.
I talked to some friends and we made plans to get together throughout the next few weeks. I got told the details to the little black dress party in the middle of April. Gave me a reason to go shopping today. I bought my dress and later in the week I get to go buy some red high heels to go with it. Should be fun.
We stopped in Missouri to see a friend. We played basketball and jumped on the trampoline. It was good to get the kids out to burn up some of their energy! I can say I was glad to be out of the car too.
Ohhh, on the trip home I was privileged enough to get pulled over and received a speeding ticket. First ticket I have got in years! Speeding tickets have gone up since my last ticket. Oh well, at least I made it all the way to Iowa before getting pulled over! Yup, I was within the last hour drive.
The trip was fun and I am very glad that we went. Hopefully I will be making the drive again this summer; however, it will be without the kids.
We woke up first thing in the morning and was making great time. Dalton couldn't stand being in the car anymore so about every 45 minutes or so I had to hear "Mom, I have to go to the bathroom." It got old quick, but we always took the next exit. This made for an extended time in the car.
As the kids watched movies or played on their DSI's, I drove. I occasionally sent a text or two and actually got a lot of phone time in.
I called my dad and asked him to buy me a camero. Of course he wouldn't nor would I actually want him to. I do have to say I really, really want a camero. Maybe that is what I will get when I finally graduate--we will see.
I talked to some friends and we made plans to get together throughout the next few weeks. I got told the details to the little black dress party in the middle of April. Gave me a reason to go shopping today. I bought my dress and later in the week I get to go buy some red high heels to go with it. Should be fun.
We stopped in Missouri to see a friend. We played basketball and jumped on the trampoline. It was good to get the kids out to burn up some of their energy! I can say I was glad to be out of the car too.
Ohhh, on the trip home I was privileged enough to get pulled over and received a speeding ticket. First ticket I have got in years! Speeding tickets have gone up since my last ticket. Oh well, at least I made it all the way to Iowa before getting pulled over! Yup, I was within the last hour drive.
The trip was fun and I am very glad that we went. Hopefully I will be making the drive again this summer; however, it will be without the kids.
Kids were house shopping...
As I have said multiple times before my Aunt has been trying to get the kids and I to move to Texas. She has been suggesting that I move there since I was 14 years old! This last week was the first time that she got to try and plant the seed to move there in the kids.
We drove around her neighborhood and she had the kids pick out their favorite houses. I took pictures per the kids request of their top two picks. The kids are easier to get talked into moving to Texas. They were ready to pack up and move after the first day there.
This house is just getting finished and will be up for sale soon. So I am told by my Aunt.
Here is the other house the kids liked.
The kids liked these houses as they thought that they resembled 'castles'. Personally I had a different favorite, but am I moving? Nah, not this month.
We drove around her neighborhood and she had the kids pick out their favorite houses. I took pictures per the kids request of their top two picks. The kids are easier to get talked into moving to Texas. They were ready to pack up and move after the first day there.
This house is just getting finished and will be up for sale soon. So I am told by my Aunt.
Here is the other house the kids liked.
The kids liked these houses as they thought that they resembled 'castles'. Personally I had a different favorite, but am I moving? Nah, not this month.
More arcade...
Here we are playing at Chuck E. Cheese. The kids love playing the games and pretending to be in the movie. I am entertained by how the enjoy themselves.
Tiana and Dalton posing with Chuck E. Cheese. My Aunt is in the background giving bunny ears to Chuck E. Cheese!
Ian playing his favorite game...basketball. The kid is pretty darn good!
Tiana and Ian are enjoying the virtual rollercoaster.
Dalton 'riding' a horse. It was actually broken but he wanted his picture taken on the horse anyway.
Tiana and Dalton posing with Chuck E. Cheese. My Aunt is in the background giving bunny ears to Chuck E. Cheese!
Ian playing his favorite game...basketball. The kid is pretty darn good!
Tiana and Ian are enjoying the virtual rollercoaster.
Dalton 'riding' a horse. It was actually broken but he wanted his picture taken on the horse anyway.
Arcade
Here the kids took advantage of the arcade that was in the lodge. It was fun watching them play the games.
Ian and Tiana trying to get the ticket jackpot.
Dalton jumping to a 'virtual' jump rope. He was jumping pretty high!
Dalton trying to hit the thing when it pops up.
Tiana walking around trying to figure out what she wants to play.
Ian trying to find the right time and place to drop in his token.
Ian and Tiana trying to get the ticket jackpot.
Dalton jumping to a 'virtual' jump rope. He was jumping pretty high!
Dalton trying to hit the thing when it pops up.
Tiana walking around trying to figure out what she wants to play.
Ian trying to find the right time and place to drop in his token.
Magi Quest
Here the boys are walking down the hallway after a night of swimming, arcade games, Magi Quest, and many more things that they have at the Great Wolf Lodge.
At the tree picking out the adventure.
Again at the tree completing one level and moving to the next.
Here the kids are buying and activating the Magi Wands. We were explained on how it works and given our book to follow to find our magical items. Honestly it was a lot of fun. Many families were completing the Magi Quest together. Tiana didn't care for it so she eventually went swimming while the boys and I completed a few levels.
Great Wolf Lodge Water Park!
Tiana posing for a picture after going down the waterslide.
Dalton showing off. He thinks he can do the splits. I want to know why he would want to!
Ian having fun and getting ready to go down one of the waterslides!
The lazy river. The area with that the kids run and play on have water guns that you can squirt the people who are just relaxing on the thier raft on the lazy river.
The kids are standing there waiting to get the water dumped on them.
This is the treehouse when we first walked in to the lodge. The kids had fun climbing up there to look around.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Monday
On monday my normal routine--my normal life--starts back up. I have to get back to work and extra early as I have been off all week. Classes at night and online have to be resumed and of course the kids go back to school.
I was once told that a vacation is anything that is different from the normal routine. Hmm...I see truth in that.
Also on monday I start my new routine. I decided I am going to lose the weight I put on. When I put my mind onto something I make sure it happens. The power of thought. I'm not quite sure how I am going to squeeze in an extra hour a day, but it will be done.
It will be a lot easier when I go to part time at work. At least I envision it to be a lot easier. Till than I guess I get up earlier as I all ready stay up late enough finishing up on things.
Talking about going to part time at work, I still have to tell my boss. Ugh. I pictured it in my head a thousand times and I thought I would enjoy telling her but I fear that is not the case. I feel like I am letting them down. I fear letting people down. I know that it is the best for me and my education but still I am dreading the talk with boss lady.
Oh, monday, you are coming way too quickly...
I was once told that a vacation is anything that is different from the normal routine. Hmm...I see truth in that.
Also on monday I start my new routine. I decided I am going to lose the weight I put on. When I put my mind onto something I make sure it happens. The power of thought. I'm not quite sure how I am going to squeeze in an extra hour a day, but it will be done.
It will be a lot easier when I go to part time at work. At least I envision it to be a lot easier. Till than I guess I get up earlier as I all ready stay up late enough finishing up on things.
Talking about going to part time at work, I still have to tell my boss. Ugh. I pictured it in my head a thousand times and I thought I would enjoy telling her but I fear that is not the case. I feel like I am letting them down. I fear letting people down. I know that it is the best for me and my education but still I am dreading the talk with boss lady.
Oh, monday, you are coming way too quickly...
Pancho's
Today after the museum and Imax show we went to Pancho's to eat. Pancho's is a Mexican buffet. It was an experience to me.
You get in line with your tray like a normal buffet; however, you don't put your food on your plate the gentleman does that for you. Okay, I can handle that. We sit down and eat and the waiter comes to the table with chips and salsa. Again, I am okay with that. There is a flag on a pulley system that if you want the waiter you put the Mexican flag up and he will come to the table. This is where it got different for me. You put the flag up the waiter comes over and you tell him what you want from the buffet line. I didn't get that concept and either did Dalton. Dalton stated "I can go and get my food, he doesn't need to, he has lots of other people to help". It was uncomfortable for Dalton and I.
Okay, so it wasn't all that weird but it was different from what I am accustomed too. I don't like to cause anyone extra work or be a burden in even the slightest way. I would have prefered to get up and get my kids food for them at a buffet.
Oh well, it was good food though.
You get in line with your tray like a normal buffet; however, you don't put your food on your plate the gentleman does that for you. Okay, I can handle that. We sit down and eat and the waiter comes to the table with chips and salsa. Again, I am okay with that. There is a flag on a pulley system that if you want the waiter you put the Mexican flag up and he will come to the table. This is where it got different for me. You put the flag up the waiter comes over and you tell him what you want from the buffet line. I didn't get that concept and either did Dalton. Dalton stated "I can go and get my food, he doesn't need to, he has lots of other people to help". It was uncomfortable for Dalton and I.
Okay, so it wasn't all that weird but it was different from what I am accustomed too. I don't like to cause anyone extra work or be a burden in even the slightest way. I would have prefered to get up and get my kids food for them at a buffet.
Oh well, it was good food though.
Firsts...
What did I do? Hmmm...
I rode my very first motorcycle. Okay, let me be honest, I rode on my very first motorcycle. Regardless, I had a blast. I was scared and excited all at once. I can see why people enjoy them. Maybe I will get brave enough to actually drive one next time.
Another first is I ate my first bite of chicken. Yup, you read that right. A chicken tostada at Pancho's Mexican Restaurant. I only ate a bite--but still it was chicken--and I did swallow it. It was everything that I thought it would be---stringy. Eww...
Rode a horse in Texas, that was a first, although I have ridden a horse before. Looked at a few neighborhoods and even a few houses.
I feel like I was working on my bucket list!
I rode my very first motorcycle. Okay, let me be honest, I rode on my very first motorcycle. Regardless, I had a blast. I was scared and excited all at once. I can see why people enjoy them. Maybe I will get brave enough to actually drive one next time.
Another first is I ate my first bite of chicken. Yup, you read that right. A chicken tostada at Pancho's Mexican Restaurant. I only ate a bite--but still it was chicken--and I did swallow it. It was everything that I thought it would be---stringy. Eww...
Rode a horse in Texas, that was a first, although I have ridden a horse before. Looked at a few neighborhoods and even a few houses.
I feel like I was working on my bucket list!
Say Cheese....
I brought my new camera on my trip to Texas with high hopes of some great pictures. The plan started out great till I realized the battery was low and I didn't bring the charger!
I was pretty bummed.
Quickly thinking I realized I keep my little digital camera in my purse. See this is why I carry a huge purse. I keep everything in it as there might be a time that I need quick access to something.
I pull out my camera from my purse and it wouldn't turn on. Ugh! Frustration was setting in. I did get some pictures of the first few days and I bought a disposable at Medieval Times last night. We will see how they turn out!
I was pretty bummed.
Quickly thinking I realized I keep my little digital camera in my purse. See this is why I carry a huge purse. I keep everything in it as there might be a time that I need quick access to something.
I pull out my camera from my purse and it wouldn't turn on. Ugh! Frustration was setting in. I did get some pictures of the first few days and I bought a disposable at Medieval Times last night. We will see how they turn out!
Friday, March 26, 2010
The show...
Just got back from the Medieval Times show and boy was it a great one! We had purchased an upgraded package which allowed up to sit up front and along with that we got extras like a souvenir program, a DVD of some sort, and a flag in our knights color to wave.
Well, upon our arrival, we had to wait a bit outside while they were getting things ready. There was another little boy maybe a year younger than Dalton and everyone knows that my Dalton is definitely not shy. Dalton befriended this kid and they talked and laughed and told stories. Well this was until we were given our crowns. The little boy was given a blue crown and we were given a black and white crown. Dalton instantly became enemies with his new friendship. They both had swords and dueled each other as we sat and waited for the show to begin.
Ian was a bit more reserved. He decided he wanted to buy a black and white jester hat. This was a great choice for him. As the night went on, Ian started to come out of his shell--he was cheering, chanting, and yelling for our black and white knight.
Tiana has enjoyed the show beforehand but bought a Tiara of some sort. She was excited again for the show. Last time she was given a carnation from our yellow knight.
So the food was served and of course our hands were our silverware and everyone ate like we were savages and this was the first meal all week.
The trumpets play and the show begun.
We have our crowns on and our flags in hands. Whenever the black and white knight passed by we woo'ed and yelled. When the green knight passed by we boo'ed and hissed.
It started with jousting. Two knights racing towards each other with the jousting sticks exploding into shards on impact. When the knight falls off the horse the battle moves to the ground. They start with swords and double edge axes. Sparks fly amongst the impact of their swinging weapons. One by one the knights are killed off.
The final show was our black and white knight against the green knight. The story plot thickened at this point as the green knight brought the kidnapped prince in the arena with arms tied with rope. The green knight was the 'bad guy'. But no fear our black and white knight saved the prince and destroyed the green knight.
I think that I spent more time watching the boys watch the show. The facial expressions and excitement they showed was absolutely priceless. In fact, I don't think Dalton sat during the whole show. He was on his feet yelling from start to finish.
At the end of the show there is a dance in the main hall with all the knights, lady, prince, king, narrator, and wenches.
Definetly a favorite of mine...
Well, upon our arrival, we had to wait a bit outside while they were getting things ready. There was another little boy maybe a year younger than Dalton and everyone knows that my Dalton is definitely not shy. Dalton befriended this kid and they talked and laughed and told stories. Well this was until we were given our crowns. The little boy was given a blue crown and we were given a black and white crown. Dalton instantly became enemies with his new friendship. They both had swords and dueled each other as we sat and waited for the show to begin.
Ian was a bit more reserved. He decided he wanted to buy a black and white jester hat. This was a great choice for him. As the night went on, Ian started to come out of his shell--he was cheering, chanting, and yelling for our black and white knight.
Tiana has enjoyed the show beforehand but bought a Tiara of some sort. She was excited again for the show. Last time she was given a carnation from our yellow knight.
So the food was served and of course our hands were our silverware and everyone ate like we were savages and this was the first meal all week.
The trumpets play and the show begun.
We have our crowns on and our flags in hands. Whenever the black and white knight passed by we woo'ed and yelled. When the green knight passed by we boo'ed and hissed.
It started with jousting. Two knights racing towards each other with the jousting sticks exploding into shards on impact. When the knight falls off the horse the battle moves to the ground. They start with swords and double edge axes. Sparks fly amongst the impact of their swinging weapons. One by one the knights are killed off.
The final show was our black and white knight against the green knight. The story plot thickened at this point as the green knight brought the kidnapped prince in the arena with arms tied with rope. The green knight was the 'bad guy'. But no fear our black and white knight saved the prince and destroyed the green knight.
I think that I spent more time watching the boys watch the show. The facial expressions and excitement they showed was absolutely priceless. In fact, I don't think Dalton sat during the whole show. He was on his feet yelling from start to finish.
At the end of the show there is a dance in the main hall with all the knights, lady, prince, king, narrator, and wenches.
Definetly a favorite of mine...
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Words are only words...
It's no secret---I wear my heart on my sleeve.
I have been told to 'toughen' up multiple times. Maybe it is time I listen. Maybe it is time that I toughen my heart.
Hide my feelings. Build my wall.
Do I see a change coming on? Maybe. I mean everyone can't be wrong, can they? Is there something so wrong by letting someone know that your feelings are hurt, or that you care, or a variety of different things? Who knows the real answer.
It's an internal battle. Good or evil? Right or wrong? Change or not?
Today I went to the pond to think. To truly think of how I feel. It was a great 'think'. To see the reflection of the trees and the clouds in the pond; to feed the few ducks that were passing on by. It gave me time to realize a lot.
Words mean little to most, but they have always meant the world to me. A simple word, thought, feeling was all I ever needed. I came to realize that words don't mean anything if not backed with actions.
Words are merely that---just words.
I have been told to 'toughen' up multiple times. Maybe it is time I listen. Maybe it is time that I toughen my heart.
Hide my feelings. Build my wall.
Do I see a change coming on? Maybe. I mean everyone can't be wrong, can they? Is there something so wrong by letting someone know that your feelings are hurt, or that you care, or a variety of different things? Who knows the real answer.
It's an internal battle. Good or evil? Right or wrong? Change or not?
Today I went to the pond to think. To truly think of how I feel. It was a great 'think'. To see the reflection of the trees and the clouds in the pond; to feed the few ducks that were passing on by. It gave me time to realize a lot.
Words mean little to most, but they have always meant the world to me. A simple word, thought, feeling was all I ever needed. I came to realize that words don't mean anything if not backed with actions.
Words are merely that---just words.
A lesson learned...
Have you ever said something that was said the wrong way?
I have.
Have you ever taken something a way that it wasn't meant?
Again, I have.
Sometimes I overstep my boundaries---I say things without thinking them through. Not that I mean to but at times my mouth moves faster than my brain. But by the time my brain catches up---feelings can get hurt or anger sets in.
I never intentionally try to upset anyone. I prefer people to be happy. I try hard to help contribute happiness to others.
In knowing this, you can imagine how I feel when I hurt someone or get someone angry. I would never minimize how I made anyone feel, as I believe that people's feelings are valid---no matter if someone agrees or not.
A lesson learned though.
I have.
Have you ever taken something a way that it wasn't meant?
Again, I have.
Sometimes I overstep my boundaries---I say things without thinking them through. Not that I mean to but at times my mouth moves faster than my brain. But by the time my brain catches up---feelings can get hurt or anger sets in.
I never intentionally try to upset anyone. I prefer people to be happy. I try hard to help contribute happiness to others.
In knowing this, you can imagine how I feel when I hurt someone or get someone angry. I would never minimize how I made anyone feel, as I believe that people's feelings are valid---no matter if someone agrees or not.
A lesson learned though.
Will there be a move in my future?
I was asked to move to Texas. I won't lie---I am giving it some serious thought. To be around family would be nice; however, being away from the rest of my family would be hard.
I was shown around town and to all the places that would be an opportunity to work at. In theory it sounds wonderful.
I have talked to a good friend whom I am in the RN program with and we both have decided that we were going to move to a bigger city after completing the program. We have discussed staying in Iowa and possibly moving to Des Moines. This would be closer to my family and they actually have family right there. We actually have talked about moving to Texas too.Surprisingly they have been contemplating making a move to Texas themselves. How ironic?!
Regardless of where we move, I do know that we are completing our RN degree first--one year.
I was shown around town and to all the places that would be an opportunity to work at. In theory it sounds wonderful.
I have talked to a good friend whom I am in the RN program with and we both have decided that we were going to move to a bigger city after completing the program. We have discussed staying in Iowa and possibly moving to Des Moines. This would be closer to my family and they actually have family right there. We actually have talked about moving to Texas too.Surprisingly they have been contemplating making a move to Texas themselves. How ironic?!
Regardless of where we move, I do know that we are completing our RN degree first--one year.
Medieval Times...
Tomorrow is my favorite of all of my Texas activities. I haven't missed a show when I was down since I started to come to Texas--Medieval Times!
Last time Tiana and I was down we cheered for the yellow knight. I wonder what color knight we will have this time. This will be the boys first time going. How exciting.
There is something about this era that I love. Maybe it is my little girl inside of me who loves the fairy tales when the knight saves the princess and the ride off on the horse. Might be but regardless I enjoy watching the performance.
Before the show we will go in to the torture chamber and look around the castle. We will see the knight's thrones and will be given a crown to wear in which it represents the color of our knight. I am personally hoping for yellow again--I am bias though--it's my favorite color.
So an update on how it goes will be in the near future...
Last time Tiana and I was down we cheered for the yellow knight. I wonder what color knight we will have this time. This will be the boys first time going. How exciting.
There is something about this era that I love. Maybe it is my little girl inside of me who loves the fairy tales when the knight saves the princess and the ride off on the horse. Might be but regardless I enjoy watching the performance.
Before the show we will go in to the torture chamber and look around the castle. We will see the knight's thrones and will be given a crown to wear in which it represents the color of our knight. I am personally hoping for yellow again--I am bias though--it's my favorite color.
So an update on how it goes will be in the near future...
The Lodge
At our stay we have done many things around the hotel.
The obvious is the water park. We have spent hours swimming. But there is soo much more...
When exploring the hotel we noticed these treasure chests set up randomly throughout the place. Curiousity gets the best out of me. I see kids with what at the time looked like sticks going up and pointing them at these treasure boxes. Hmmm....interesting I thought. As I watched I noticed that the treasure boxes responded--they talked!
I just had to know. The kids and I went up to some kids that was on this hunt with their dad. We asked what it was called, how to play, and where to begin. The helpful family walked us to the store to get us started. We activated our Magi Quest wands and our journey begun in the "Training Room".
We picked our Quest at the tree as instructed and off we went. Up five floors, down two, up one, down three. All we did was hunt for the next clue. We got into the game and went up a few levels. We didn't get to finish yet but we will see.
There were so many kids and adults waundering around on this "quest"--it kept people busy.
Along with the quest there was much more to do. We played in the arcade. We got airbrushed tattoos. The kids decorated Crocs (ugh, the ugliest shoes--but they just 'had' to do it) There was storytime by the big fireplace and still there was much, much more.
Something I loved was the kids were able to make me a flip picture book. The picked out props and got to make a seven second video. It was printed frame by frame and put together. Now all I do it flip quickly through the pages and I get to see the kids dancing. Very cool.
I got to say this place is worth the stay! (I'll post pictures soon)
The obvious is the water park. We have spent hours swimming. But there is soo much more...
When exploring the hotel we noticed these treasure chests set up randomly throughout the place. Curiousity gets the best out of me. I see kids with what at the time looked like sticks going up and pointing them at these treasure boxes. Hmmm....interesting I thought. As I watched I noticed that the treasure boxes responded--they talked!
I just had to know. The kids and I went up to some kids that was on this hunt with their dad. We asked what it was called, how to play, and where to begin. The helpful family walked us to the store to get us started. We activated our Magi Quest wands and our journey begun in the "Training Room".
We picked our Quest at the tree as instructed and off we went. Up five floors, down two, up one, down three. All we did was hunt for the next clue. We got into the game and went up a few levels. We didn't get to finish yet but we will see.
There were so many kids and adults waundering around on this "quest"--it kept people busy.
Along with the quest there was much more to do. We played in the arcade. We got airbrushed tattoos. The kids decorated Crocs (ugh, the ugliest shoes--but they just 'had' to do it) There was storytime by the big fireplace and still there was much, much more.
Something I loved was the kids were able to make me a flip picture book. The picked out props and got to make a seven second video. It was printed frame by frame and put together. Now all I do it flip quickly through the pages and I get to see the kids dancing. Very cool.
I got to say this place is worth the stay! (I'll post pictures soon)
Chuck E. Cheese
As any guilty mom would feel for "forcing" her eight year old to get a fat and bloody lip, I took the kids to Chuck E. Cheese for lunch.
We were the first people to the place so it was kind of nice to have it to ourselves. Joe, the training manager at Chuck E. Cheese, was the man who greeted us. Joe asked us what we were celebrating. We explained it was Spring Break. He congratulated us and asked us where we are from(Spring Break here was last week). I told Joe that we were from Iowa and he quickly asked from where. I explained that we have lived on both sides of the states and that we are currently in Ottumwa. Joe started to laugh and stated that he himself was from Iowa---Des Moines, actually. I didn't believe Joe. I called Joe a "liar head" and insisted that he says that to "everyone".
Joe started talking really fast and was telling us that he just moved to Texas. That he is the training manager for Chuck E. Cheese and worked in Des Moines. That he was born here in Texas but his mom moved him to Iowa when he was growing up. That just recently he transfered down to the new Chuck E. Cheese to help train.
Thinking, I asked Joe to show me his driver's license (if he just moved here chances are he hasn't got a Texas license yet). He reached into his wallet to pull out his Iowa driver's license. By golly Joe was honest---he was from Iowa.
Pizza was on Joe.
We were the first people to the place so it was kind of nice to have it to ourselves. Joe, the training manager at Chuck E. Cheese, was the man who greeted us. Joe asked us what we were celebrating. We explained it was Spring Break. He congratulated us and asked us where we are from(Spring Break here was last week). I told Joe that we were from Iowa and he quickly asked from where. I explained that we have lived on both sides of the states and that we are currently in Ottumwa. Joe started to laugh and stated that he himself was from Iowa---Des Moines, actually. I didn't believe Joe. I called Joe a "liar head" and insisted that he says that to "everyone".
Joe started talking really fast and was telling us that he just moved to Texas. That he is the training manager for Chuck E. Cheese and worked in Des Moines. That he was born here in Texas but his mom moved him to Iowa when he was growing up. That just recently he transfered down to the new Chuck E. Cheese to help train.
Thinking, I asked Joe to show me his driver's license (if he just moved here chances are he hasn't got a Texas license yet). He reached into his wallet to pull out his Iowa driver's license. By golly Joe was honest---he was from Iowa.
Pizza was on Joe.
Howlin' Twister
The kids and I arrived to Texas around six o'clock in the evening on Tuesday! The drive went very well and the kids didn't mind it.
We spent the majority of our time so far enjoying the indoor water park. With the lazy river, wave pool, kids play area, and of course a whole lot of water slides.
About the water slides...um...Dalton really didn't want to go down the Howlin' Twister but I kinda, sorta talked him into it. Not really a great idea--which I soon found out.
We get on and he automatically was angry with me because it is pitch black and than we go down a huge straight drop and up one side and down the other of this great big tunnel. All I could say was "Don't let go". We get to the end and Dalton is crying and his face is being held in his little hands. I get off the raft and pick him up. His hands are filled with blood.
I asked him what happened and his knee came up and hit his mouth when we had the drop off in the slide. Boy, do I feel awful at this point---don't know if I could feel any worse---well I will feel worse in a bit. So the lifeguard blows her whistle and puts a closed fist in the air. Next thing I know I have four men checking on Dalton and asking a whole slew of questions.
The one guy gets Dalton some gauze to put in his mouth and an icepack for the swelling. As he was sitting there talking to Dalton he said "At least you were having fun till this happened". Dalton quickly and sharply replied "No, I wasn't. My mom MADE me go on that slide. I didn't want to!"
This was the point that I felt worse.
Needless to say Dalton is doing just fine---a fat lip and a little cut on his lip.
We spent the majority of our time so far enjoying the indoor water park. With the lazy river, wave pool, kids play area, and of course a whole lot of water slides.
About the water slides...um...Dalton really didn't want to go down the Howlin' Twister but I kinda, sorta talked him into it. Not really a great idea--which I soon found out.
We get on and he automatically was angry with me because it is pitch black and than we go down a huge straight drop and up one side and down the other of this great big tunnel. All I could say was "Don't let go". We get to the end and Dalton is crying and his face is being held in his little hands. I get off the raft and pick him up. His hands are filled with blood.
I asked him what happened and his knee came up and hit his mouth when we had the drop off in the slide. Boy, do I feel awful at this point---don't know if I could feel any worse---well I will feel worse in a bit. So the lifeguard blows her whistle and puts a closed fist in the air. Next thing I know I have four men checking on Dalton and asking a whole slew of questions.
The one guy gets Dalton some gauze to put in his mouth and an icepack for the swelling. As he was sitting there talking to Dalton he said "At least you were having fun till this happened". Dalton quickly and sharply replied "No, I wasn't. My mom MADE me go on that slide. I didn't want to!"
This was the point that I felt worse.
Needless to say Dalton is doing just fine---a fat lip and a little cut on his lip.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Hmm....yea...
"I am sure that you think that you understand what I said; however what you think you heard, is not what I meant."
Yup, that sums it up.
Yup, that sums it up.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
I am me; nothing more.
Multifaceted or complex doesn't even begin to describe me. I am kooky, zany, shy, aggressive, timid, affectionate, mysterious and practical. Why box myself into being entirely one thing or another? How boring would that be?
I am me; nothing more.
The thing is...I love my random self. I love that I like staying home on a weekend to color with the kids or having a grill out with friends; or I love that I am random and like to understand why and how things work; or that I would sit and talk to a friend rather than go to a bar at night; or that I value family; or that in the middle of one subject some other topic will pop in my head that I get excited about.
Sometimes I wonder if others reflect on themselves as I do. I like to better myself in any small way that I can. I think that is vital for success. I notice that some people are okay with just surviving. I wonder why that is?
Like I have said many times. I thrive on learning and making myself a better person in all aspects of life. I want to be a better mom, a better employee, a better partner, a better sister, a better cook, a better daughter, a better friend,a better student, well just a better me.
I take things personally when given any amount of criticism. Not that I really mean to but because I see it sort as a weakness on my part. The good thing is sometimes it turns out to be a learning experience. Can't fix something that I don't know is broken type of mentality.
Seriously how do people expect someone to work on something that they didn't know was an issue? This is where communication is key. I believe that sometimes people don't use communication and that is truly sad.
Things that go unsaid can't be fixed. Wants can't be filled if not shared.
I can't say that I never do this. I am famous for saying nothing is wrong just to save a persons feelings or to not have a fight. I am guilty of this.
I am not perfect. Far from that, to be truthful.
I love communication. I love the comfort of being able to openly communicate wants, thoughts, feelings, expectations, wishes, or whatever random thought that might go through my head at any given moment during the day. That is what I desperately want.
I would love to lay in bed with someone some random night to talk about a movie, a class, the trip to the store, cheese, the color yellow, whatever it is it doesn't matter.
I will have this in 2010.
I am me; nothing more.
The thing is...I love my random self. I love that I like staying home on a weekend to color with the kids or having a grill out with friends; or I love that I am random and like to understand why and how things work; or that I would sit and talk to a friend rather than go to a bar at night; or that I value family; or that in the middle of one subject some other topic will pop in my head that I get excited about.
Sometimes I wonder if others reflect on themselves as I do. I like to better myself in any small way that I can. I think that is vital for success. I notice that some people are okay with just surviving. I wonder why that is?
Like I have said many times. I thrive on learning and making myself a better person in all aspects of life. I want to be a better mom, a better employee, a better partner, a better sister, a better cook, a better daughter, a better friend,a better student, well just a better me.
I take things personally when given any amount of criticism. Not that I really mean to but because I see it sort as a weakness on my part. The good thing is sometimes it turns out to be a learning experience. Can't fix something that I don't know is broken type of mentality.
Seriously how do people expect someone to work on something that they didn't know was an issue? This is where communication is key. I believe that sometimes people don't use communication and that is truly sad.
Things that go unsaid can't be fixed. Wants can't be filled if not shared.
I can't say that I never do this. I am famous for saying nothing is wrong just to save a persons feelings or to not have a fight. I am guilty of this.
I am not perfect. Far from that, to be truthful.
I love communication. I love the comfort of being able to openly communicate wants, thoughts, feelings, expectations, wishes, or whatever random thought that might go through my head at any given moment during the day. That is what I desperately want.
I would love to lay in bed with someone some random night to talk about a movie, a class, the trip to the store, cheese, the color yellow, whatever it is it doesn't matter.
I will have this in 2010.
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